not from there, but I travel there every Christmas, and will actually be there Thursday-Monday. For bottle shops, Total Wine is usually best. There's not many traditional bottle shops, at least that I'm aware. I usually pick up all my CCB cans when I'm down at Publixes because I usually find the freshest selection there and then hit up Total Wine for bottles.
I'm not too knowledgable about bars in the area as I haven't been to many beer bars, but Stillwater Grille is a safe bet, good taps and good food, easily a place you can take your family if need be. There's a also World of Beer in the Bell Tower Shops that has a lot of taps. Down at the beach there's a place called House of Brewz which is probably the best place to have some beers at the beach, it's about a block away from the main strip. I also believe that House of Brewz has another location in some outdoor shopping center in Fort Myers/Estero area, but again, not from there and I've never been to it.
Hopefully a local can point you to some other places as well. Cheers!
